Ultimately, increasing your pleasure will also involve identifying what kinds of friction you're seeking and ensuring you use one or more of these strategies to achieve it. If you're not using condoms because you're using a hormonal method of birth controllike the pillknow that most hormonal methods work in part by thickening discharges, so it's often extra important to be using a lube from a bottle with genital sex. Arousal fluid is distinct from cervical fluidand occurs as a result of the excitement phase in the sexual response cycle. My boyfriend tends to like sex more when i'm wet and tight. Alternatively, try using a condom to add more friction or try having a soft cotton cloth handy and have your partner incorporate gentle wiping up of the excess moisture as part of your lovemaking.
One study found lubricant use was associated with higher ratings of sexual pleasure and satisfaction.
Dear Mrs Salisbury: I get too wet during sex
You may feel wetter and have a higher sex drive near ovulation, due to an increase in estrogen. Female physical sexual arousal begins with the excitement phase. Like any other muscle, it's one you can tense or relax, and one you have some control over. Envisage these muscles at the entrance to the vagina as if they are a horizontal version of the saloon doors in the old cowboy movies and swing them up and down. Understand that the vagina doesn't change shape in any sort of permanent way: If intercourse as it is isn't really doing it for one or both of you, it's more sound to talk about why, and start looking to working in other activities with or instead of intercourse, or experiment with positions, than it is to glug gallons of water to get more wet especially since that's mostly about you simply getting excitedor to try and make your body do the opposite of what it wants and needs to do for your pleasure when you're aroused per vaginal "tightness. It happens before orgasm so it's not the squirting during orgasm I've read about and it's definitely not urine.